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Thursday, February 24, 2011
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
How to have a Meaningful Mitzvah Celebration without Breaking the Bank
At ZG Productions we speak regularly with families who are concerned about the costs of having a Bar or Bat Mitzvah party for their child.
In the first group are parents who pull out all the stops and throw a big, flashy party. If this describes what you want – go for it. Be prepared both for significant costs and a great party. Remember that the best Mitzvah’s manage to keep the focus on your child and the spirit of the occasion, no matter what the final budget of the event.
But what if you want something less flashy, less expensive, and just as (or maybe more) meaningful? In this group are families who are not interested in trying to out-do others on spectacle. The best part of planning a party for this second group is that you’re already focused on the heart of the event: planning a special, memorable and fun family party that incorporates Jewish tradition, special ceremonies and good times.
Here’s how you can have a special, exciting and memorable Bar/Bat mitzvah party for your child without having to take out a second mortgage on your home!
1. Choose a venue that has great dynamics for a party vs just a room in a fancy building – look for a large main room sized to the number of guests, allow for some alcoves/smaller areas that allow people to get away to talk, that has clean restrooms, and that has easy access for setup and takedown.
2. Choose inexpensive but interesting party favors to hand out to guests as a special memento.
3. Choose game prizes like I-Tunes gift cards, $2 bills, or other small chatchkis; small gift bags that appeal to kids and adults alike filled with inexpensive, Jewish themed items which can be assembled at home.
4. Make good use of simple fabric backdrops and up-lighting to make the room look beautiful.
5. Use your photos, videos, and LCD projectors to best advantage. In some rooms this may be off to the side; in others your slideshows may be part of the main event.
6. Think about interactivity for your guests. A digital snap shot booth, a live camera fed to a projector, a fun game table off to the side, and so on.
7. Keep the focus on your child and your guests.
8. If you are the host parent, then delegate, delegate, delegate even if you are not hiring coordinators. This leaves you free to work the room and relax.
9. Sweat the details of the guest list. A good party starts with a good crowd.
At ZG Producions we strive to work with families to create a Mitzvah party that accomplishes both your objectives: affordability and fun. We’ve learned to find the happy medium between a lavish, high cost affair and a casual low cost get together by placing the emphasis on fun, family and tradition. We are good at it and we’d love to be your Entertainment company of choice.
In the first group are parents who pull out all the stops and throw a big, flashy party. If this describes what you want – go for it. Be prepared both for significant costs and a great party. Remember that the best Mitzvah’s manage to keep the focus on your child and the spirit of the occasion, no matter what the final budget of the event.
But what if you want something less flashy, less expensive, and just as (or maybe more) meaningful? In this group are families who are not interested in trying to out-do others on spectacle. The best part of planning a party for this second group is that you’re already focused on the heart of the event: planning a special, memorable and fun family party that incorporates Jewish tradition, special ceremonies and good times.
Here’s how you can have a special, exciting and memorable Bar/Bat mitzvah party for your child without having to take out a second mortgage on your home!
1. Choose a venue that has great dynamics for a party vs just a room in a fancy building – look for a large main room sized to the number of guests, allow for some alcoves/smaller areas that allow people to get away to talk, that has clean restrooms, and that has easy access for setup and takedown.
2. Choose inexpensive but interesting party favors to hand out to guests as a special memento.
3. Choose game prizes like I-Tunes gift cards, $2 bills, or other small chatchkis; small gift bags that appeal to kids and adults alike filled with inexpensive, Jewish themed items which can be assembled at home.
4. Make good use of simple fabric backdrops and up-lighting to make the room look beautiful.
5. Use your photos, videos, and LCD projectors to best advantage. In some rooms this may be off to the side; in others your slideshows may be part of the main event.
6. Think about interactivity for your guests. A digital snap shot booth, a live camera fed to a projector, a fun game table off to the side, and so on.
7. Keep the focus on your child and your guests.
8. If you are the host parent, then delegate, delegate, delegate even if you are not hiring coordinators. This leaves you free to work the room and relax.
9. Sweat the details of the guest list. A good party starts with a good crowd.
At ZG Producions we strive to work with families to create a Mitzvah party that accomplishes both your objectives: affordability and fun. We’ve learned to find the happy medium between a lavish, high cost affair and a casual low cost get together by placing the emphasis on fun, family and tradition. We are good at it and we’d love to be your Entertainment company of choice.
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Seven Alternatives to Traditional Bar Mitzvah Candle Lighting Ceremonies
Many mitzvah moms struggle with the tradition of candle lighting. They worry about offending or excluding family and friends, their kids spend hours writing rhyming poems instead of studying their Haftorah portions and song selections become a family debate. All the while, the underlying question remains – how can a Bar Mitzvah candle lighting ceremony be unique, memorable and “cool”, all at the same time?
Well, let’s start by considering the history of the candle lighting ceremony. Contrary to popular belief, there’s nothing in any Jewish text that describes or mandates this tradition. No one knows exactly when it began or who started it, only that the popularity of the candle lighting ceremony has grown to the point where it’s now an expected occurrence at any New York Mitzvah celebration. But what does it all mean?
Technically, when Jewish children “become a Bar or Bat Mitzvah”, they become responsible for their own actions. The term mitzvah has also come to express any act of human kindness. By using these definitions, I have found and created 7 non-traditional alternatives to candle lighting ceremonies which are inclusive and meaningful. Who knows? Maybe we’ll start a trend!
Dim the lights. As your child lights each candle, he/ she will call upon a particular group of guests to light their own candles. Ideally, by the time your child lights the last candle, everyone has lit theirs and the room is glowing. Some examples below. Create your own groups.
”Because you mean so much to me and I’m grateful that you’re all here today to help me celebrate, I’d like to call upon each of you to participate in my candle lighting from your tables.”
1. I would like to light a candle for those who could not be here with us tonight (mention names)
2. Would my immediate family please stand and light their candles now (mention names).
3. Would my grand parents please stand and light their candles now (mention names).
4. Would all my aunts, uncles and cousins please stand and light their candles now.
5. Would those of you who knew my family before I was born, please stand and light your candles now.
6. Would those of you who I met in elementary school please stand and light your candles now.
7. Middle School
8. Summer Camp
9. after school activities (hockey, gymnastics, etc.)
10. Family friends
11. My parents work colleagues and their spouses
12. Those of you who took care of me as a child (babysitters, nannies)
13. Neighbors
These are a few examples of grouping guests so get creative. Use common interests or geographic locations. The possibilities are endless.
2. VALUES – Work with your child to identify qualities in your honorees which he/she hopes to incorporate into his/her own life. Have your child tell a short anecdote about how each quality is reflected in that person or group of people. For instance, “I remember my grandfather whistled everyday. I think it was because he was content with his life, everyday. Now, when I whistle, I realize it’s because I’m content. Thank you, grandpa.” Other qualities to consider are Consideration, Strength, Compassion, Honesty, Reliability, Humor, Courage, Honor, Tenacity, Creativity, Intelligence, Cooperation, Love and Patience.
3. MITZVAH PLEDGE – Have your child pledge 13 mitzvah or good deeds that he or she plans to achieve, either over the next year or over his or her lifetime. It can range from helping around the house without being asked to organizing volunteers at soup kitchens. Ask each guest to silently light his or her candle at their table and make a mitzvah pledge of their own.
4. WISDOM – Combine the montage with the candle lighting by hiring a company that specializes in combining video and photos, such as rewindpics.com/. Have them film interviews with honorees. Long distance relatives can be recorded by phone. Each honoree offers words of wisdom your child. Candles can be lit live by your child as he/she watches candles being lit in the video.
This idea can also be accomplished without a montage. Ask honorees to offer a blessing or words of wisdom to your child when they’re called up to light the candle. Be sure give enough advance notice so that honorees can prepare something appropriate and don’t forget to tell them to keep it short. One or two sentences per candle is perfect.
5. PLANT A TREE - Instead of lighting candles, plant 14 trees in Israel. Display 14 saplings during the reception in the same way you would display a cake with a small card in front of each explaining the Honorees they represent. his is a great option for families who don’t actually want a candle lighting ceremony.
6. VOLUNTEER – Take photos of your child doing 13 volunteer projects and create a montage. Have him/her dedicate each mitzvah to an honoree. For example, “To my Grandmother, who always read to me and continues to inspire my education, I donated books to our local library” or “To my Aunt and Uncle, who taught me to reuse, renew and recycle, I planted a tree in Israel”.
7. REMEMBER US PROJECT - The simple act of remembering someone restores that person’s value and meaning, and adds meaning and value to your own life. One-and-a-half million Jewish children were lost during the Holocaust before they had a chance to grow into Jewish adults, many before their own call to the Torah. Visit www.remember-us.org to request a name of one of these children. Dedicate the first candle to this lost child and ask your child make a commitment to saying the Kiddush prayer on the anniversary of his/her Bar/Bat Mitzvah each year, so they never forget.
Well, let’s start by considering the history of the candle lighting ceremony. Contrary to popular belief, there’s nothing in any Jewish text that describes or mandates this tradition. No one knows exactly when it began or who started it, only that the popularity of the candle lighting ceremony has grown to the point where it’s now an expected occurrence at any New York Mitzvah celebration. But what does it all mean?
Technically, when Jewish children “become a Bar or Bat Mitzvah”, they become responsible for their own actions. The term mitzvah has also come to express any act of human kindness. By using these definitions, I have found and created 7 non-traditional alternatives to candle lighting ceremonies which are inclusive and meaningful. Who knows? Maybe we’ll start a trend!
- CUP OF LIFE - Created by Rabbi Anchelle Perl. Fill 14 small cups of grape juice or wine (13 for each year plus one for good luck). One by one, they are poured by each honoree into a large brandy snifter. At the end, your child recites Kiddush and drinks from the snifter. Each cup represents an ingredient in the “recipe” for a good life:
- Cup of Good Health
- Cup of Wisdom
- Cup of Faith
- Cup of Compassion
- Cup of Good Humor
- Cup of Dedication
- Cup of Success
- Cup of Prosperity
- Cup of Generosity
- Cup of Friendship
- Cup of Happiness
- Cup of Humility
- Cup of Patience
- Cup of Love
Dim the lights. As your child lights each candle, he/ she will call upon a particular group of guests to light their own candles. Ideally, by the time your child lights the last candle, everyone has lit theirs and the room is glowing. Some examples below. Create your own groups.
”Because you mean so much to me and I’m grateful that you’re all here today to help me celebrate, I’d like to call upon each of you to participate in my candle lighting from your tables.”
1. I would like to light a candle for those who could not be here with us tonight (mention names)
2. Would my immediate family please stand and light their candles now (mention names).
3. Would my grand parents please stand and light their candles now (mention names).
4. Would all my aunts, uncles and cousins please stand and light their candles now.
5. Would those of you who knew my family before I was born, please stand and light your candles now.
6. Would those of you who I met in elementary school please stand and light your candles now.
7. Middle School
8. Summer Camp
9. after school activities (hockey, gymnastics, etc.)
10. Family friends
11. My parents work colleagues and their spouses
12. Those of you who took care of me as a child (babysitters, nannies)
13. Neighbors
These are a few examples of grouping guests so get creative. Use common interests or geographic locations. The possibilities are endless.
2. VALUES – Work with your child to identify qualities in your honorees which he/she hopes to incorporate into his/her own life. Have your child tell a short anecdote about how each quality is reflected in that person or group of people. For instance, “I remember my grandfather whistled everyday. I think it was because he was content with his life, everyday. Now, when I whistle, I realize it’s because I’m content. Thank you, grandpa.” Other qualities to consider are Consideration, Strength, Compassion, Honesty, Reliability, Humor, Courage, Honor, Tenacity, Creativity, Intelligence, Cooperation, Love and Patience.
3. MITZVAH PLEDGE – Have your child pledge 13 mitzvah or good deeds that he or she plans to achieve, either over the next year or over his or her lifetime. It can range from helping around the house without being asked to organizing volunteers at soup kitchens. Ask each guest to silently light his or her candle at their table and make a mitzvah pledge of their own.
4. WISDOM – Combine the montage with the candle lighting by hiring a company that specializes in combining video and photos, such as rewindpics.com/. Have them film interviews with honorees. Long distance relatives can be recorded by phone. Each honoree offers words of wisdom your child. Candles can be lit live by your child as he/she watches candles being lit in the video.
This idea can also be accomplished without a montage. Ask honorees to offer a blessing or words of wisdom to your child when they’re called up to light the candle. Be sure give enough advance notice so that honorees can prepare something appropriate and don’t forget to tell them to keep it short. One or two sentences per candle is perfect.
5. PLANT A TREE - Instead of lighting candles, plant 14 trees in Israel. Display 14 saplings during the reception in the same way you would display a cake with a small card in front of each explaining the Honorees they represent. his is a great option for families who don’t actually want a candle lighting ceremony.
6. VOLUNTEER – Take photos of your child doing 13 volunteer projects and create a montage. Have him/her dedicate each mitzvah to an honoree. For example, “To my Grandmother, who always read to me and continues to inspire my education, I donated books to our local library” or “To my Aunt and Uncle, who taught me to reuse, renew and recycle, I planted a tree in Israel”.
7. REMEMBER US PROJECT - The simple act of remembering someone restores that person’s value and meaning, and adds meaning and value to your own life. One-and-a-half million Jewish children were lost during the Holocaust before they had a chance to grow into Jewish adults, many before their own call to the Torah. Visit www.remember-us.org to request a name of one of these children. Dedicate the first candle to this lost child and ask your child make a commitment to saying the Kiddush prayer on the anniversary of his/her Bar/Bat Mitzvah each year, so they never forget.
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